Are you in debt and sometimes feel as if you can never see yourself clear of it? Whether the debt stems from university loans, buying a car you can rely on, or repairs for the home – life is expensive. Studies show that finances are one of the biggest stressors amongst couples, because even if you can find a way to agree on expenditures the sheer stress of debt weighs a couple down.
Owing lots of money can be very hard on the psyche – it’s as if your subconscious knows that one bad break will send your world spiraling downward. Being in debt is a difficult place to find yourself in but it can be resolved with a bit of focus and commitment to the goal.
First, really take a look at where your money is going. This may sound easy but it isn’t because there will come a moment where you truly realise what all those dinners out could have bought you. Acknowledge it but then let it go, it’s done. Now look at what you hope to accomplish financially; where do you hope to be in 5 years? And then systematically start knocking that debt down.
If you’ve tried going on your own and still feel overwhelmed and stuck you may want to look into getting some advice from a debt management agency. They’ll review you circumstances without judgment and give advice about bankruptcy, IVA debt elimination, and more. For instance did you know that with an Individual Voluntary Arrangement your house is more likely to remain yours than in bankruptcy? A debt management agency can advise you on that and so much more.
Good luck!